Monday, June 27, 2011

He is Ignoring My Texts

he is ignoring my texts

I have had many women come to me with this problem.  They say he is ignoring my texts.  Now this can happen in different circumstances.  It could be after a spat or a break up.  If this is the case and you keep texting and he isn't answering your texts, you have to stop texting him.  He will only see you as a love sick school girl if you keep it up.  If he isn't answering, let him be for a while, let him calm down.  If you keep texting him, he is probably scared to answer you at this point because he knows he will be drilled.

If you are just starting to date, in the first few weeks and he is ignoring your texts, well he hasn't made you a priority yet and I must ask why are you texting him in the first place.  If a man isn't texting you, you shouldn't be texting him, period.  It upsets the balance.  Guys instinctively like to chase and you texting him when he isn't texting you means he isn't chasing.

Why is He ignoring My Texts 


why is he ignoring my texts
So if you find yourself saying he is ignoring my texts, I can already tell you what you are doing wrong.  If he is ignoring then he isn't texting.  If he isn't texting and you are, you are trying to control where the relationship is going. You are trying to get a result that may not align with him.  Regardless of why you think he should text you, if he is ignoring your texts, he is ignoring you.

Men ignore us often when they aren't on the same page as we are in the relationship.  They don't want to actually tell you this, so they do avoidance instead.  Then when they do reply and you let them back in, you have just accepted him on his terms, not yours.  It will never really grow like this.  You have to have boundaries, but you have to not shove them down his throat.

If he is ignoring your texts, you aren't a priority.  If you keep on texting, it shows him he is a priority.  In other words, you are investing your time and energy into a man that is not investing it into you.  You have already made him a priority, while to him, you are only an option.  Chances are good he is going to disappear sooner or later if he does this already.

To be blunt, it he is ignoring your texts, he isn't that interested and if you keep on texting, you look needy and desperate and anything but attractive.  

If men ignore you, stop texting you or often disappear on you, it's highly possible that you get ahead of them in the dating game or perhaps you are just falling for the wrong men.

There are ways of texting to make a man feel like a man, and there are ways of texting that makes him completely lose interest.  Do you know the difference?  You can use texting to literally turn a boring couch potato into a hopeless romantic.  You can text romance and get his interest.

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