What to do When Guys Suddenly Stop Texting

Your number one love interest has gone silent.  He was texting you everyday and you were on top of the world.  Now radio silence and you are wondering what happened.  What to do when guys stop texting you all of a sudden.

Your instincts and human nature probably are telling you to reach out.  You want to find out why and if you did something wrong or said something to turn him off.  You may even be feeling a bit of anger and want to lash out with some sarcastic comment or send him a blaming type text message.

Please don't do any of the above.  That is not what to do when guys suddenly stop texting you.  It just paints you in an unattractive light and confirms for him that not texting you is the right thing to do.  

When you react in negative or needy ways when he stops texting you, it shows him you aren't in control of your emotions.  A woman in control of herself is very attractive, while a woman who is not is one he will classify as crazy.  You don't want to be known as crazy do you?  

Most girls will continue to text a guy that is not texting her.  That is what guys expect and it's also what they try to avoid.  If you mirror his behavior, meaning don't text him either, you will stand out.  When you continue to text a guy that isn't texting you, in any form, you are investing into someone who isn't investing into you.  Please value yourself more than this.  

When you do nothing as in show no reaction at all he will notice.  Also you won't be annoying him further.  When guys stop texting, they are usually feeling your anxiousness and pulling back.  Showing more anxiousness will only push him further away.  Also texting a guy that isn't texting you shows him that you don't trust him to make his own decisions and that you are trying to control the situation.  Guys don't like to feel controlled.

Chances are if you do nothing when a guy suddenly stops texting you, he will reach out again in the future and that is when he will be more open to listening to you.  

Learn how to speak the language of desire that few men can resist and perhaps you won't have to worry again why guys stop texting you.