How To Text Into His Heart - Text Him In Love

Can you text your way into his heart? Can you text him in love?  I think yes you can make some progress here that is for sure.  Will your texting efforts cause him to fall deeply in love?  Perhaps not, but you can bet they have to power to lock you into his mind if and only if you do it right.  Most women don't do it right.

I can give you examples and tell you why and how they work.  Men like to be appreciated.  Women like to feel adored.  Many get these crossed up.  A woman thinks because her need is to be adored that is what will feel good to him.  Actually he would rather feel appreciated.

Lets say he texts you he is thinking about you.  Do you?
A)  Text back how much you are thinking about him too
B)  Text back how good it makes you feel to hear him say this?

The answer is B.  The first answer is responding to him like you would want to be responded to.  Men aren't women.  The second answer rewards his efforts, not his words.  A man likes the recognition of his efforts.  It makes him feel like "The man".  If you can make him feel like "The Man", you will fare far better than the woman who brings on the compliments.

Lets say he has just texted you of something he has accomplished.  Maybe a raise, maybe a promotion, maybe he lifted 200 pounds 80 times at the gym, whatever.  How you reply makes a difference.  Would you:
A) That's great. lets celebrate!
B) I am proud of you
C) I knew you would do it!  Wow, I am dating an executive now!  My girlfriends will be jealous.

The answer would be C.  It shows you had faith in him, it shows you are proud.  It shows him in an overall good light and makes him feel good.

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When texting into a man's heart, remember to reward efforts and not words.  Remember he isn't wired like a woman.  Men like appreciation and acceptance.  Before you hit send ask yourself do your words convey appreciation and acceptance or are they more suited towards what one of your girlfriends would want to hear.

Men are also visual.  If you want to reach him emotionally you need to learn how to paint pictures with your words.  Just sharing your emotions with men isn't how to do this.  

Text the Romance has hundreds of examples and techniques on how to build an emotional attraction with a man with texts messages and text him in love.  Men fall in love with the way you make then feel and texting is a great tool that you can use to your advantage.  

Text Him In Love

Some think texting is for teenagers. They think it's silly and that it hinders real communication. While there may be some truth to this there are a few things you might want to think about before dismissing texting as a tool to enhance your relationship.

A few years ago I was in a relationship with a man that used texting a lot. I don't know if he just knew how to do it instinctively or if he had read one of the online texting guides but I do know this. His texts always made me smile. I had a ring tone assigned to this man. His texts were never mundane, always playful and he never texted me to death. The result. Every time I heard that ring tone, my heart would skip a few beats. I would get excited to hear from him. He was creating triggers and his texts helped me to fall in love with him.

He knowingly or unknowingly created a trigger with his texts. His texts would trigger a euphoric feeling in me. This trigger was so strong. Triggers can also change. He broke up with me. I was heart broke. Anytime after that if he called or texted and I heard that ring tone, it triggered deep sadness. I had to change his ring tone. Triggers can be powerful. They can cause us to feel deep strong emotions.

What are your texts triggering in your guy? Do you text mundane things like can you bring home the milk? Do you use your texts to say you are running late, or convey any other boring details. If so, you aren't texting love. Your texts are not positive triggers. If you can learn to text him things that give him warm fuzzy feelings, you can cement your emotional attraction further and deeper. Yes you can text him in love.
Triggers are powerful. Think about an addict. What is one of the first things an addict has to do to break free of an addiction. He has to remove the triggers. That cup of coffee that triggers the cigarette. Texting love is like creating an addiction with your triggers. He becomes addicted to you.

Stop using texts to your man for anything other than texting love or fun loving things. Create that trigger in him with your texts and help him fall in love with you using these triggers as a tool. You can be playful, or sexual, and engage his imagination with text messages. Your texts become something that is just between you and him. It's those little things that add up and grow emotional attraction and yes text love!

I can also remember how it felt when I didn't get a text from a particular man. It didn't feel good. This only worked to heighten the effect of the trigger he created. I would feel relief when I did hear from him. Relief, another positive trigger was created. It's a bit like Pavlov's dog if you think about it. You can text him in love

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