Is Language of Desire a Scam?

Being a dating and relationship author I am pretty active on a few forums and sites on the Web.  I kept hearing women talk about the language of desire and how it turned their life upside down in a good way.  If you are wondering is the language of desire is a scam, I can tell you first hand it is not. 

Oh when you land on the sales page of the language of desire, it almost looks too good to be true.  You have probably been burned by hype before. This ebook will no disappoint and the reason is, it really does tap into the secret desires of men.  The desires that they don't share with you because they fear they may be judged.  The desires that they crave, but are often scared to ask for. 

This program has sold over 1.5 million in just six weeks with a very low return rate.  That speaks volumes right there.  Below are just a few blurbs of the language of desire reviews.

My long distance relationship was fading.  We were talking less and less and he wasn't coming to see me like he used to .  I downloaded the language of desire and just Wow!  Mind blowing.  That was 2 months ago and he is not planning to move here to be closer to me.  Thank you!  Thank you!  Cindy, Houston Texas

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My husband had just stopped wanting to have sex.  It had been over a year since he even tried.  I was always to one to make the moves.  I used some of the things I learned in language of desire one night just texting him from across the room at a party and the rest is history!  He could not wait to get me home! We can't get enough of each other and the sex is not only frequent now, but amazing!  Jenny, Norfolk, Virginia. 

I thought I was too shy to talk dirty to a man.  I thought the language of desire was going to be something that taught me how to act like a slut.  Boy was I wrong.  I have never had more passionate, connecting and satisfying sex in my life.  Margie, Clear Water, Florida

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Texts to Send to Make Him Think of You

If you are wanting to know some good texts to send to make him think of you, the first thing to think about is will he be open to this.  In other words if it's a guy who is not your boyfriend and that you hardly know, you may want to slow it down before you fire of one of these text messages. 

Some of the text messages I am going to suggest for you to send to make him think about you will backfire if you send it to the wrong guy.  If he isn't your boyfriend yet and you just met and aren't in any type of relationship, these texts will be just creepy. 

Timing is also important.  The ideal time to send one of these powerful messages is the day you are supposed to see him.  This builds the anticipation and anticipation can build attraction. 

Take for example you have a date tonight with this guy.  Send him something like "when I see you tonight, I am going to _____________.  And yes, leave it blank.  When he asks, reply "you have to wait and see".  Being mysterious texting is good.  Leave it to his imagination. 

Another good time to text is after a great date.  Pick something specific that he did that made you feel good and just tell him about it.  Showing some vulnerability is powerful. 

Now there are a few things no girl should ever send to a guy.  These are not going to make him think of you and will not keep you on his mind.

A text that really says nothing.  Just a "hey" or "what ya doing?" is a waste of time.  It does nothing to build attraction. 

Don't send long paragraphs.  A sentence or two is enough.  I have been texting men long enough to know that they will only pick up on one thing that you said in your message.  Please trust me on this.  Stick to one topic only in a text message. 

No naked pics please.  Guys will share these with their other guy friends.  If you are just looking for a hook up and no relationship,  naked pics might be good, but leave your face out.  You don't want to be circulating around the world via the internet. 

Also please don't overdo it.  Text to send to make him think of you should be used sparingly.  If you do this every day it loses it's magic.  You get predictable.  Also there is some truth that absence makes the heart grow fonder.  If you are constantly texting a guy, he doesn't have the chance to miss you.

Lastly, if you really want to get to the heart of a man via texting and discover techniques to turn him into a hopeless romantic, check out Michael Fiore's Text the Romance here! 

What to do When Guys Suddenly Stop Texting

Your number one love interest has gone silent.  He was texting you everyday and you were on top of the world.  Now radio silence and you are wondering what happened.  What to do when guys stop texting you all of a sudden.

Your instincts and human nature probably are telling you to reach out.  You want to find out why and if you did something wrong or said something to turn him off.  You may even be feeling a bit of anger and want to lash out with some sarcastic comment or send him a blaming type text message.

Please don't do any of the above.  That is not what to do when guys suddenly stop texting you.  It just paints you in an unattractive light and confirms for him that not texting you is the right thing to do.  

When you react in negative or needy ways when he stops texting you, it shows him you aren't in control of your emotions.  A woman in control of herself is very attractive, while a woman who is not is one he will classify as crazy.  You don't want to be known as crazy do you?  

Most girls will continue to text a guy that is not texting her.  That is what guys expect and it's also what they try to avoid.  If you mirror his behavior, meaning don't text him either, you will stand out.  When you continue to text a guy that isn't texting you, in any form, you are investing into someone who isn't investing into you.  Please value yourself more than this.  

When you do nothing as in show no reaction at all he will notice.  Also you won't be annoying him further.  When guys stop texting, they are usually feeling your anxiousness and pulling back.  Showing more anxiousness will only push him further away.  Also texting a guy that isn't texting you shows him that you don't trust him to make his own decisions and that you are trying to control the situation.  Guys don't like to feel controlled.

Chances are if you do nothing when a guy suddenly stops texting you, he will reach out again in the future and that is when he will be more open to listening to you.  

Learn how to speak the language of desire that few men can resist and perhaps you won't have to worry again why guys stop texting you.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Drive Him Crazy Texting

First you need to understand men really don't respond to words all that much. How many time have they tuned us out? That is often because we are talking to them like we would want to be talked to. This does not work, they are not women. To communicate and stimulate a man, go for his ego. Sweet does not get it when you are trying to drive him crazy texting. 

When learning how to text a guy,  and drive him crazy texting, first lesson is do not overkill. If you text too much and too often, he sees you as needy or desperate. Less is always more when it comes to men. Don't be the girl that when he is out with the guys that he shows his phone to his buddies and rolls his eyes about and not in a good way. If you are a perpetual texter, this will be a huge turn off and a warning flag of drama queen ahead.

It's also best to let him initiate first. When he opens the door, you walk on through, full of wit and humor. Pick and tease him, go after that huge ego. A man's first instinct is to defend his ego and manhood. Don't do so with malice, use softeners when you do this such a a smiley face.

When texting a guy, imagine wearing a halo and horns at the same time. Guys love the Angel/Devil combination.

When texting guys, a little provocative suggestion goes a long way. A subliminal talk with his penis is what I call it. Never be direct, always say something that could have a double meaning. That way he can't ever accuse you of being dirty, but he can certainly think you might be a bit naughty, but with no hard core proof to back it up. Guy like a challenge, but they also like to know they can win. 

When you are texting a guy, you want to create positive anchors and triggers. When he sees he has a message from you, you want him to feel anticipation before he reads it. You want to use this anticipation to build the attraction. When learning the best ways how to text a guy, always remember, less is more. Also try to be let him be the last one to text, find a good cut off point and stop, leaving him wanting more.

Learn the art of texting guys. Build up his attraction and be the girl that he gets excited about when his phone rings. Don't go at this blindly, to find out how to trigger a man's attraction and turn him into your romantic, check out Text the Romance here for all kinds of great texting tips and examples. 

Should I Text My Ex on His Birthday?

So you and your boyfriend are broken up and now it's his birthday!  You want to know should I text my ex happy birthday?  Here are just a few thoughts before you let your fingers do the talking.

You most likely see this as an excuse to make contact.  If you see it as an excuse, he will too. Ask yourself what is the real motive behind you wanting to text your ex?  Be honest with yourself.  Is it to remind him you still think of him, that you still care?  Do you hope he will suddenly remember you are alive and want to get back together.

When a man breaks up with you, he has decided he no longer wants you in his life, at least in that moment.  To still cling to him, even with a simply happy birthday text is not something you do with people who have chosen to longer be a part of your life.

If you think it's rude not to text your ex on his birthday, think again a bit harder.  He isn't a part of your life anymore.  You aren't included in his birthday plans.  His life is going on.  By texting your ex, you are showing him that perhaps yours is not.

You will make him wonder far more by not texting him on his birthday than if you do.  If you want him back, a little wondering works wonders.  It's when they feel you slipping out of their grasp for good that they may begin to feel regret.  If you text your ex on his birthday, you are still in his grasp.

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Does he text you on your birthday?  Will he?  Giving more than you are getting is not the way to a man's heart nor will it suddenly make him long for you.  If anything, he may even see you as sad.  Sad is not attractive.

If you are thinking of texting an ex happy birthday, think again.  Save your text messages for a man who is present in your life and giving back to you what you are giving him.  A happy birthday text to your ex will not bring him back.

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What Can I Text My Ex

If you are asking the question, what can I text my ex, chances are you have recently went through a break up.  You are wanting to make some sort of contact.  You probably want him back if you are searching for something to text him to make him want to respond.  Understand that if this is a recent break up, there isn't much you can text him at this point that want be seen as a blaring excuse.  He may likely see it as you grasping at straws.

If your breakup is fresh, your emotions are raw and about anything you do will be driven from these emotions.  We make bad decisions from this place and often end up pushing the man further away.

Timing is everything if you are thinking of texting your ex.  He really needs time to process it all before you go began to attempt to open the lines of communication back up.  I recently got an email from a reader who asked me this question.  "What can I text my ex to make him contact me on his own?".  First, if you are baiting him, he won't exactly be texting you on his own.  If he replies to your texts, you have prodded him.  The goal if you really want your ex back if for him to come to realize on his own that in fact his life is better with you in it than not.

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There are techniques and certain words you can text that will propel him back towards you, but it must be done at the right time and the right time is not soon after the break up.  When a break up is fresh, emotions run high on both sides and chances are almost 100% you will just make it worse.

Michael Fiore has created a product that takes timing, delivery and what to say into account to work towards getting back together with you ex not only possible, but probable.  Check it out.

How To Text Into His Heart - Text Him In Love

Can you text your way into his heart? Can you text him in love?  I think yes you can make some progress here that is for sure.  Will your texting efforts cause him to fall deeply in love?  Perhaps not, but you can bet they have to power to lock you into his mind if and only if you do it right.  Most women don't do it right.

I can give you examples and tell you why and how they work.  Men like to be appreciated.  Women like to feel adored.  Many get these crossed up.  A woman thinks because her need is to be adored that is what will feel good to him.  Actually he would rather feel appreciated.

Lets say he texts you he is thinking about you.  Do you?
A)  Text back how much you are thinking about him too
B)  Text back how good it makes you feel to hear him say this?

The answer is B.  The first answer is responding to him like you would want to be responded to.  Men aren't women.  The second answer rewards his efforts, not his words.  A man likes the recognition of his efforts.  It makes him feel like "The man".  If you can make him feel like "The Man", you will fare far better than the woman who brings on the compliments.

Lets say he has just texted you of something he has accomplished.  Maybe a raise, maybe a promotion, maybe he lifted 200 pounds 80 times at the gym, whatever.  How you reply makes a difference.  Would you:
A) That's great. lets celebrate!
B) I am proud of you
C) I knew you would do it!  Wow, I am dating an executive now!  My girlfriends will be jealous.

The answer would be C.  It shows you had faith in him, it shows you are proud.  It shows him in an overall good light and makes him feel good.

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When texting into a man's heart, remember to reward efforts and not words.  Remember he isn't wired like a woman.  Men like appreciation and acceptance.  Before you hit send ask yourself do your words convey appreciation and acceptance or are they more suited towards what one of your girlfriends would want to hear.

Men are also visual.  If you want to reach him emotionally you need to learn how to paint pictures with your words.  Just sharing your emotions with men isn't how to do this.  

Text the Romance has hundreds of examples and techniques on how to build an emotional attraction with a man with texts messages and text him in love.  Men fall in love with the way you make then feel and texting is a great tool that you can use to your advantage.