Showing posts with label building sexual tension texting a guy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label building sexual tension texting a guy. Show all posts
Friday, October 7, 2011
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
How To Be Mysterious Texting Guys
It's human nature to love a mystery. It's the unknown that we often find attracts us to another. Think about it really. How much time do you spend analyzing a man? You do this because of what you don't know, all the while creating a bit of fantasy in your head. Men are the same way, trust me. It's what they don't know that keeps them coming back for more. You can use this to your advantage by creating mystery when texting guys.
So when learning how to be mysterious texing a guy, remember this golden rule. Less is more. It's the girl that engages in a text marathon that quickly loses his attention. She is too available, to much of an open book and this offers him no challenge, not to mention there is nothing mysterious about texting a guy constantly. If you really like him, this will be harder for you. You want to talk, connect and chat. Just remember, you have time. Don't rush it. Long term satisfaction over instant gratification.
The little smiley emoticon is one little trick I use to be mysterious when texing a guy. When he texts a compliment or something that makes me smile, instead of engaging in too much conversation, I just send a smiley face. This tells him he made me smile and gives him reinforcement. It also leaves him wondering. It's just enough to make him try again. His goal is to get more from you. It's mysterious to him because most girls just babble on and on. You don't, why are you different is what he starts to think.
Have you ever noticed that the guys that you don't really like as much seem to be impossible to get rid of while the ones you do disappear more often? This really isn't a coincidence. Chances are you are giving more to the guy you like and less to the guy you don't. You become a challenge to the guy you don't, he is intrigued as you seem elusive and mysterious. The guy you do like, you are jumping every time your phone goes off and answering him immediately because you are so exited. Challenge and mystery gone. So it only makes sense if you want to text a guy and be myserious, text with him like you would a guy who you don't fancy so much.
This takes self control yes. Once you practice these techniques though and begin to see results, it reinforces that it does work. It begins to become second nature. You are in essence training yourself with your own reward system. Wait to text him, don't be so eagar, be cool, hold back some, and watch him move forward to find out more about you. It feels good. Texting guys is a great way to escalate attraction, use it wisely.
Be friendly and receptive, but don't give too much too soon away in your texts. We often try to control the outcome. We share too much when texing a guy way too fast. A slow simmer tastes better than a rapid boil. Less is more when texting guys and building that air of mystery.
UP YOUR TEXT APPEAL
So when learning how to be mysterious texing a guy, remember this golden rule. Less is more. It's the girl that engages in a text marathon that quickly loses his attention. She is too available, to much of an open book and this offers him no challenge, not to mention there is nothing mysterious about texting a guy constantly. If you really like him, this will be harder for you. You want to talk, connect and chat. Just remember, you have time. Don't rush it. Long term satisfaction over instant gratification.
The little smiley emoticon is one little trick I use to be mysterious when texing a guy. When he texts a compliment or something that makes me smile, instead of engaging in too much conversation, I just send a smiley face. This tells him he made me smile and gives him reinforcement. It also leaves him wondering. It's just enough to make him try again. His goal is to get more from you. It's mysterious to him because most girls just babble on and on. You don't, why are you different is what he starts to think.
Have you ever noticed that the guys that you don't really like as much seem to be impossible to get rid of while the ones you do disappear more often? This really isn't a coincidence. Chances are you are giving more to the guy you like and less to the guy you don't. You become a challenge to the guy you don't, he is intrigued as you seem elusive and mysterious. The guy you do like, you are jumping every time your phone goes off and answering him immediately because you are so exited. Challenge and mystery gone. So it only makes sense if you want to text a guy and be myserious, text with him like you would a guy who you don't fancy so much.
This takes self control yes. Once you practice these techniques though and begin to see results, it reinforces that it does work. It begins to become second nature. You are in essence training yourself with your own reward system. Wait to text him, don't be so eagar, be cool, hold back some, and watch him move forward to find out more about you. It feels good. Texting guys is a great way to escalate attraction, use it wisely.
Be friendly and receptive, but don't give too much too soon away in your texts. We often try to control the outcome. We share too much when texing a guy way too fast. A slow simmer tastes better than a rapid boil. Less is more when texting guys and building that air of mystery.
UP YOUR TEXT APPEAL
Monday, March 28, 2011
Building Sexual Tension Texting Guys
This is really simple. It's sort of goes parallel with playing hard to get. It's about making him wait a bit before you give into his advances. Anticipation and building up to meeting a guy actually is sexual tension.
How do you do this, build this sexual tension. If he is texting you, asking you questions, don't always answer him so readily. Maybe even answer his question with a question. Inspire him to be creative to get your attention and your time. Now by all means, keep flirting, tossing him crumbs so he will know you could be interested.
It's sort of about keeping him guessing. He won't know if you are into him or not, but he thinks you could be. Think about playing the slot machine. It's the little wins that keep you playing in hopes of winning the jackpot.
You don't want to do this too long as he may give up. A week is good, if he is a patient sort, maybe a little longer. You want him to get excited about meeting you. If you meet a guy right off the bat, he isn't going to be that excited. He will be excited more if he had to work for it. We all know we value that which we work for.
When he texts you, don't answer him right away, but usually do answer in the same day. This paces the texting conversation. Occasionally do wait a day. If you pace him with your texting, you are in control. It prolongs the meeting, which is what you want to do. The longer he waits, the more excited he is going to be.
He may be telling his friends after a few days. "This girl texts me, and she seems interested, but I just don't know". If you can get him thinking like this, you got the sexual tension building. His imagination starts to do your work for you. A man's imagination is where the sexual tension is built.
Sexual tension is not really built with words, it's more about techniques, which you can learn more of here.
How do you do this, build this sexual tension. If he is texting you, asking you questions, don't always answer him so readily. Maybe even answer his question with a question. Inspire him to be creative to get your attention and your time. Now by all means, keep flirting, tossing him crumbs so he will know you could be interested.
It's sort of about keeping him guessing. He won't know if you are into him or not, but he thinks you could be. Think about playing the slot machine. It's the little wins that keep you playing in hopes of winning the jackpot.
You don't want to do this too long as he may give up. A week is good, if he is a patient sort, maybe a little longer. You want him to get excited about meeting you. If you meet a guy right off the bat, he isn't going to be that excited. He will be excited more if he had to work for it. We all know we value that which we work for.
When he texts you, don't answer him right away, but usually do answer in the same day. This paces the texting conversation. Occasionally do wait a day. If you pace him with your texting, you are in control. It prolongs the meeting, which is what you want to do. The longer he waits, the more excited he is going to be.
He may be telling his friends after a few days. "This girl texts me, and she seems interested, but I just don't know". If you can get him thinking like this, you got the sexual tension building. His imagination starts to do your work for you. A man's imagination is where the sexual tension is built.
Sexual tension is not really built with words, it's more about techniques, which you can learn more of here.
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