Tuesday, January 24, 2012

How To Text Into His Heart - Text Him In Love

text him in love
Can you text your way into his heart? Can you text him in love?  I think yes you can make some progress here that is for sure.  Will your texting efforts cause him to fall deeply in love?  Perhaps not, but you can bet they have to power to lock you into his mind if and only if you do it right.  Most women don't do it right.

I can give you examples and tell you why and how they work.  Men like to be appreciated.  Women like to feel adored.  Many get these crossed up.  A woman thinks because her need is to be adored that is what will feel good to him.  Actually he would rather feel appreciated.

Lets say he texts you he is thinking about you.  Do you?
A)  Text back how much you are thinking about him too
B)  Text back how good it makes you feel to hear him say this?

The answer is B.  The first answer is responding to him like you would want to be responded to.  Men aren't women.  The second answer rewards his efforts, not his words.  A man likes the recognition of his efforts.  It makes him feel like "The man".  If you can make him feel like "The Man", you will fare far better than the woman who brings on the compliments.

Lets say he has just texted you of something he has accomplished.  Maybe a raise, maybe a promotion, maybe he lifted 200 pounds 80 times at the gym, whatever.  How you reply makes a difference.  Would you:
A) That's great. lets celebrate!
B) I am proud of you
C) I knew you would do it!  Wow, I am dating an executive now!  My girlfriends will be jealous.

The answer would be C.  It shows you had faith in him, it shows you are proud.  It shows him in an overall good light and makes him feel good.

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When texting into a man's heart, remember to reward efforts and not words.  Remember he isn't wired like a woman.  Men like appreciation and acceptance.  Before you hit send ask yourself do your words convey appreciation and acceptance or are they more suited towards what one of your girlfriends would want to hear.

Men are also visual.  If you want to reach him emotionally you need to learn how to paint pictures with your words.  Just sharing your emotions with men isn't how to do this.  

Text the Romance has hundreds of examples and techniques on how to build an emotional attraction with a man with texts messages and text him in love.  Men fall in love with the way you make then feel and texting is a great tool that you can use to your advantage.  

2 comments:

  1. I met a man on a dating website and we have been out twice.I had fun and thought he did too.After the 1st date he didn't call for 2 wks.Just about the time I was about to write him off he calls and wants to go out again...so we went out again the others night and he hasn't called again since. He was a gentleman and didn't try to sleep with though I sure was tempted.Why do they not call if they like us so much??

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