Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Text Messages That Make Him Feel Good

Face it, men fall in love because of the way you make them feel.  Men need what I call the three A's to feel good.  They need to be appreciated, accepted and they crave affection.  If this is the case, then why not use texting as a tool to create triggers in men to these feelings.  It only makes sense.  Be creative when you text him and keep these three A's in your mind.

Men want romance, but the macho side of them often keeps them held back.  You can send texts that can make a man feel safe.  When he feels safe, he feels he has permission to be more romantic or even mushy because you have shown him you accept him.

Please note here if you are just beginning to date a man, use caution with these texts, they can back fire if used incorrectly and push him away.  You don't want to come across as a pleaser or too accommodating or needy.

An example of one of these texts is pretty simple.  Lets say you had a great night last night if you know what I mean.  Simply text him mid day with something like this "You were amazing last night".  This tells him that he made you happy and men love to make women happy.  It also shows appreciation.   You can be very specific in this also.  Tell him exactly what he did that was so amazing.  Positive reinforcement.  Works like a charm.

I am not saying to text him empty compliments, be sincere but be creative.  Don't waste your text messages on things like "How is your day?".  This does not create a trigger that makes him feel good.  You want him to associate your texts with feeling good.  Triggers, it's all about triggers.  If you text him mundane things and he is busy at work, he may resent your text on a subconscious level.

So before you hit the send button, ask yourself if you are making him feel appreciated and good.  Are you making him smile.  Or you recreating memories.  This will help bond a man to you.

If you want to perfect this art of texting a man to increase passion and romance, Michael has a great program called Text the Romance Back.  It's worth checking into.


2 comments:

  1. I have been doing online dateing an receive the most adorable email Ihve ever receive in my lfe from this guy he gave me so much compliment and elf praise I happen to like and he initiate the same feeling he made the first move not me. I email and compliment him as well. He told me he is rally interestd in me and nothing changed. Something does I dont know this is? We have not met in person but communicate via phone and emails. This long distant relationship in a way, we live in neighbouring countries. Then suddenly all my email went answered. Seventeen days after he responded that he was sorry to neglect me and asked for pardon and explained he was very busy and could not find the time to repond he had leave a number to call him i did but all went unanswer so I and an email just a few lines to let he nows that I had try to get hold of him it's now 11 days and not a word from him I sign in online a see that he has been on erlier but had not email me. Any advice as to how to approach this situation? M

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  2. But like just about anything, there is a right way and a wrong way to do it. And this leads me to my main point: Most guys TOTALLY foul up the text messages they send. They fail to understand that men and women are different when it comes to texting. online dating tips

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