Monday, August 8, 2011

How To Rekindle Your Relationship With a Text Message

If you are feeling a disconnect from your partner, you are probably longing for the man he was when you first met. We all do this I believe. The man that wowed us in the beginning when he was trying to win us seems to have disappeared. No flowers, romantic dinners or weekends. No afternoon phone calls saying he is thinking of you. The romance is gone. So how can you rekindle your relationship?

Men want to feel like the hero. Men need to feel like men. They also need to feel they are making us happy. You of course could go into therapy but that takes time and puts on pressure. You want to take the pressure off and allow him to feel like a man again.
What I am going to suggest is an different romance idea. You cell phone is your quickest easiest way to rekindle your relationship fast. A text message. Before you click off of this article, I hope you will hear me out. A text message can act as a huge trigger. You have heard of Pavlov's dog and triggers right? That is what I am going to suggest you do with text messages. Create positive triggers for your partner that inspire him to naturally rekindle the romance.

I know this works. I am queen of the text message. I learned it from a few very skilled partners over the last few years. I had a long term relationship with a man who never texted me boring mundane things. He was always pushing my emotional buttons in text messages and had a way to get me going. I had a ring tone assigned to him. Anytime I heard that ring tone, eventually my heart skipped a beat. The ring tone was a trigger. I would feel euphoric when I heard it. It only makes sense that texting is a huge romance idea or way to get romance back.

This trigger changed when we broke up. Then if and when he texted of called, the trigger changed to deep sadness. Triggers are powerful and can bring about some deep emotions. If you want to know how to rekindle your relationship fast, start creating positive triggers with your text messages.

No more texting him mundane details. No more asking him to stop for milk or bread or asking him when is he coming home. Use texts messages for positive things. Make him feel like a man with your text messages. The first text that I suggest you send is this. "I can't stop thinking about you today". Wait and see where he takes this message. You can gently lead him in the right direction and have him thinking some pretty good thoughts about you with this message. Send it out of the blue, maybe the middle of the day.

I never asked my significant other when is he getting off work. I have him trained now. I would text "When are you getting off?". After much practice and now that his triggers are set, he always comes back with something spicy and often very romantic or sexy. He has learned to read into my texts because I have set the triggers.

Texting is a fast way how to rekindle a relationship. It beats nagging and telling him what it is he isn't doing anymore. Men don't really respond to us talking to them, it's actions that get their attention. Consider that yes you can text the romance back.

These techniques have been on the Rachel Raye show. Hundreds of women in the audience and thousands around the world have sat with their mouth open at the effectiveness of these texting the romance back techniques.

Text Back Your Romance

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