Sunday, September 11, 2011

Texting Him Good Morning


Do you text your boyfriend Good morning?  Do you do it daily or almost daily?  If so, how sweet, but I hope you are in a committed relationship with this man that you are are being so sweet to everyday.  I know many women who text guys they have only been casual dating with for a short time.  This is when it is a mistake.  If you are consistently texting him Good morning, it's like you are acting like a girlfriend way too fast.  This is one of the ways to run a man to the hills, acting like a girlfriend when he isn't or doesn't see himself as your boyfriend, yet.......

It shows a man you are into him and that's all fine and well, but it deprives him of the role of pursuer.  Men like to pursue.  Sure the easier, more available women will get a reply, why give up an easy thing.  She will rarely end up the woman he wants to have a relationship with.  The woman he commits to will be a woman that he had to work for and wasn't so available or eager.

If you are going to text him Good morning, do so sparingly and just because he might have texted you Good Morning a time or two does not mean you should return the gesture.  If he texts your first, sure respond, but never ever in the early stages text him Good Morning First.  Let the man lead.  Also if you are pursuing, how on earth will you ever be sure if he does in fact like and respect you?  You can't.  If feels very good when they text you first.  It tells you that yes he is into you and will save you from a lot of guess work down the road if you can start out feeling secure.

I know you probably want to send him sweet good morning text messages, but seriously this puts the masculine and feminine in opposite roles.  A man needs to remain in his masculine to feel good and if you are doing his job for him, how can he?  

If he isn't texting you good morning or texting you first, he isn't that interested and you texting him will only reinforce that he isn't interested.  Men really do like a challenge.  There are lots of ways you can use texting to increase attraction and get and keep his interest.  Texting him Good Morning is dull and mundane, although a sweet thing to do on occasion.  Routines are boring, don't get into them with your texting.  Boring equates to loss of attraction.

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1 comment:

  1. You make some really good points about texting good morning texts too much too early in a relationship. With a lot of guys it is all too easy to scare them off early.

    However later on in the relationship it is much more acceptable.

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