The Rules For Calling Men You Must Know to Keep Your Relationship Alive

Do you initiate the calls and texting? If you haven't heard from him do you ring him first? Do you ever engage in all day texting with him? There are rules for calling guys, these rules also carry over to texting guys as well

If you do or have done any of these things above, chances are you are too available and trust me, he will sense it. He will know you are making him a priority and he will not find you a challenge. Men love a challenge. That which comes easy is not appreciated or treasured. One of the rules for calling men is to let him do the initiating, let me explain why this is critical.

Think of his car. If he has an old beat up jalopy that he got for just a few hundred, he really puts no value in it. On the other hand if he has a really nice shiny sports car that he had to work long hard hours to afford, he sees it completely different. He washes it every weekend, parks it where no one can scratch or dent it. Most of all he sees it as very valuable. He doesn't want anyone else driving it. Same goes for the rules for calling men. If you are calling him, you will never be the pretty shiny car that he takes great care of.

This should be your mindset when handling phone calls or texts from your guy. If you make it too easy for him, you eventually become that jalopy. I am not saying ignore his calls, but a girl with self value does not revolve her life around a man nor depend on his contact for validation. A woman that values herself, will inspire a man to value her as well.

Go on with you life like he isn't your main focus. If you are busy, call him back when you can. If you haven't heard from him, don't call him, don't text him, don't email him, sit tight. Don't become glued to your phone. He will notice you are not calling and it increases your degree of value in his eyes. It gives him something to work for because if you aren't calling or texting, well he sees you as not quite available yet. This causes him to work harder.

How you handle calls and texts from the men in your life is critical in building the attraction in a relationship. Knowledge of how to handle the phone, your biggest tool in the dating pool is critical.